When we think about the word family,
it comes to our consideration that the people with whom we live at homes or the
persons who bring us up is the main type of relation called family, most of the
time of us is spent with them including childhood and adulthood.
Of late in the United States, United
Kingdom, and Europe and nowadays in eastern states believing in friend has been
more influential than having conviction upon relatives.
In many cities of Pakistan after
2002, chatting on the internet took place and with the passage of time it was
increased and many of the internet users got that chatting on the Yahoo
Messenger is the initial use of using computer. During that period in almost
all cities of the country had numerous of internet cafes where, especially
youngsters used to come to chat.
When seeing 2006 in Pakistan
Facebook was not thick on the ground since a very few knew about and the year
2007 brought so many mobile connections which once were not a piece of cake and
then SMS performed the responsibility of Yahoo Messenger, people from each and
over corner got advantage from SMS, which became a cause of being away from
getting closer to family and relative while having foods together.
When talking about the excessive
Facebook use in Pakistan, it opened its doors after 2009 and the person who
even cannot write his or her name was uploading pictures and getting connect
with folks even he knew them or din not. Nowadays almost everyone owns personal
Facebook or other social network ids that have kept us away from our relatives.
As far as my perception is concerned
and world I see, it is really easy to call someone your friend, but it is
really very complicated to keep to the statement you express, the word friend
is used or it is not considered as it is.
Certainly, family is more helpful
than friend due to feelings attached to blood relation and unfortunately
friendship has been really very common and all don’t shy to call someone their
friend.
I believe that if your friend is
caring you more willingly than your family, is he your real friend, but most of
the time I have observed that family is more serious than friend when caring,
loving and thinking positive.